7 signs your dog feels safe with you, according to a pet trainerBeth Ann Mayer Thu, October 15, 2026 at 1:03 PM UTC
Have you ever wondered whether you can tell if your dog feels snug, safe and secure or not? The good news is it’s easier than you think and pet trainers say you actually can! However, many pet parents miss out on how their dog may be communicating with them since they express their emotions and feelings differently than people do. That’s why it’s important to pay attention to your dog’s body language and behavior so you can start noticing what they do when they feel good and when they were nervous.
Shir Limazati, CPDT-KA, of Another Chance Training, wishes more people would as she says it helps dog moms and dads bond with their pets. After all, safety is foundational for dogs. “When a dog feels safe, they can process social cues, understand communication we have practiced during learning time and even tap into their senses such as hearing, seeing, and smelling more easily,” Limazati explains.
To be clear, safety doesn’t mean your dog won’t hate fireworks season or jump if a car backfires. But Limazati says feeling safe with you will help a dog decompress and reset faster. They’ll also be able to take your signals that there’s nothing to fear even if they were scared in a specific moment. “When your dog consistently experiences you as a source of safety, clear communication, predictability and positive things, trust has room to grow,” Limazati states.
However, don’t worry if your dog doesn’t seem completely at ease in your home right away, especially if you just welcomed them into your family. That trust can come through working with your dog to overcome challenging situations, like learning something new or getting through vulnerable experiences, such as a bath. “You become that person they look to not so they can obey, but instead so they can look for guidance and direction for what’s next,” Limazati reveals.
To find out where your furry companion stands, keep an out out for these signs that show your dog feels snug, safe and secure.
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7 Signs Your Dog Feels Snug, Safe and Secure
Dogs that feel safe with you form a deep bond and settle faster after a scary moment. As a trainer, Limazati looks out for these signals that most dog moms and dad overlook.
1. They Have Floppy, Relaxed Body Language
Signs your dog feels safe can be reflected in their body language, as Limazati says relaxed dogs look soft, not stiff, when they are around people they trust.
“You’ll often see their muscles loose and relaxed, their tail wagging slowly and calmly, their ears softer rather than perked up, and their mouth slightly open and not clenched,” Limazati says. “Their temperament will be the opposite of hurried or panicked.”
As important as body language is, Limazati says it’s only one piece of the puzzle, and context is important when you’re trying to figure out how your pup is feeling. Still, seeing a dog relaxed instead of showing signs of hypervigilance is a positive sign they feel emotionally safe and comfy.
2. They Don’t ‘Destroy’ Your Home When You’re Gone for Short Periods of Time
How do you know if your dog feels safe in your home? When dogs can settle without you and not be on alert or feel anxious, Limazati says it’s a clue your dog feels secure enough to cope with a little separation, which is a good thing.
“If your dog makes themselves comfortable and takes your time out of the house as an opportunity to take a nice long snooze and doesn’t need to destroy things to make it through that period alone, this is usually a sign that your dog is not only feeling secure, but they are a confident pup as well,” Limazati notes.
That doesn’t mean your dog is anxious or insecure if you come home and find they destroyed something. Limazati says your pup may have been bored or lacked enough outlets to burn off pent-up energy.
Repeated destruction can signal that they don’t feel secure enough to be alone, and you’ll want to speak with your pet’s vet.
3. They Come When You Call, Even If There Are Distractions
If Limazati had to pick one thing to tell every dog family she works with, it’s this: When a dog consistently responds to your cues, it’s not about obedience. “It’s about connection,” Limazati says.
Limazati reports that recall is the best example of this idea and shows that your dog trusts you more than you might realize. “More than even connection, if your dog consistently returns to you every time you give them that recall cue, that also means they have a strong history with good things happening when they do return to you,” Limazati says. “It’s always been rewarding and worth it to them. What a beautiful reflection of the bond and communication you built with your dog.”
Recall doesn’t happen by accident, though. It takes work. “It’s practiced again and again with you and your dog, and they learn each time that something good happens when they choose to return to you,” Limazati says.
4. They Sleep at Your Feet While You‘re Busy
Your dog’s chill body language when you’re “adulting” means they feel calm and safe around you. In fact, Limazati says if they sleep at your feet while you do “life admin” tasks, like paying the bills or clearing out your work inbox, you shouldn’t take it as a bad sign. Instead, its how they are showing you that they have no worries.
“Nothing exciting is happening here,” Limazati points out. “Your dog doesn’t need constant entertainment or interaction; they are perfectly happy lying next to you while you do something incredibly boring by their standards. Choosing to settle peacefully near you is your dog telling you that simply sharing space with you is rewarding enough.”
Even more beautiful? “They feel safe enough to relax and switch off,” Limazati says. Of course, they wouldn’t mind it if you did the same and snuggled on the couch!
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5. They Show You Their Belly
There’s something so cute about a dog who flops over and shows you their belly. If they’re feeling calm, it’s basically how your dog is telling you without saying a thing that they feel super safe with you and at peace.
“Whether they’re asking for a belly rub or just want to be extra close to you. It’s a photographic moment of how comfortable they feel with their person,” Limazati says.
As classic as a belly-rub-loving dog is, Limazati cautions that context is everything with this behavior. “Sometimes dogs show their belly as a way to ask for space,” Limazati says.
6. They Let You Bathe Them or Cut Their Nails
Grooming activities like bathing, brushing and nail trims call on a dog to let you handle their body. Sometimes, they can feel uncomfortable. But, when they really trust you and feel at ease, they won’t put up a fuss.
“When done with a cooperative care approach—looking for your dog’s version of consent—grooming can become one of the most meaningful ways to build trust with your dog,” Limazati says. “There really isn’t anything much more vulnerable than being soaking wet in a bathtub or having someone handle your paws and your nails. When you are helping your dog get through that vulnerable grooming time, your bond grows stronger.”
7. They Sigh Deeply
Have you ever heard a deep, almost exasperated sigh and turned to your dog like, “Dude, no one is making you pay rent!” If so, this hilariously adorable dog behavior is often a sign your dog feels good—not annoyed.
“When your dog takes that deep breath and lets out that big sigh, that is their transition into a relaxed state,” Limazati says. “It’s a sweet, sometimes funny, sign that your dog feels so comfortable in your presence and their environment that they can shut off and let their guard down.”
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Shir Limazati, CPDT-KA, of Another Chance Training
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